In Memory of Shannon Meisch

From: Shelbi with love

These last few days I've spent so much time reflecting on things, as I know all of us have. I knew right away that I wanted to speak here today, but at first I just couldn't put together what I was going to say. It's amazing to see all the hearts Shannon has touched. Being surrounded by so many people these last few days has been so comforting. We have shared so much. The tears, the memories, the laughs, the heart to heart talks. Yesterday I found some peace, and I h ave many of you to thank for that. I found peace in the truth that Shannon is still with us. Her spirit and presence will always be with us. She now finds rest in a place where she can look upon us and know us in ways that she could not here on earth. From where she sits she will watch us as we dwell on things that have no lasting value. In those times she will long for us to remember what we have learned from and felt during this experience. Good things can come from this, and that is certainly what she wants. This is an enormous opportunity for change. We've all caught ourselves asking

"What if" or "I wish...." but we all know we can't change the past. We do have an effect on the future. Right now we have a very clear image of the things in life worth devoting our time to. It would honor Shannon if we would all strive to keep this image in our hearts. And also if we would live every day as if it may be our last. Don't put off till tomorrow what we can do today. Don't hold back the thoughts that cross your mind - say the I love you's, give the hugs, and make the time. Thes e are the things we live for. This experience can draw us all closer together - and closer to God - and the ability to make it happen lies in the hearts of all of us. Everyone has been asking, "What can we do for you?" I just ask that we all see this as an opportunity to rearrange our hearts and our lives. Let's continue to lean on each other while we grieve - and strive to continue doing the same for ever after. Let's remind each other the value of leaning and loving. We can all see how important we are to each other now. I want to carry this with me and spread it around. Holding tight to my memories of Shannon and to this experience, I will allow her, through me, to touch the hearts of many more people. We all can - and I think she loves that idea. Do it for her, and for yourselves. Then the day will come when we will meet with her again.

May God's presence settle into your bones, and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and love.

Stephanie